Scripture Reading: 1 Peter 2:18-25
Young or old, we all expect to be treated fairly, and when we’re not, we’re not very happy. It seems to be part of our DNA. The fact that we are wired this way is not surprising. Fairness is a biblical principle and an attribute of God (Deut. 32:4). God rules and judges with fairness, and has set the standard for fairness (Pr. 16:11). The Bible instructs us to be fair in all our dealings, judgments and decisions (e.g. Lev. 19:15). Fairness is a good thing, and we should treat people fairly.
But, as they say, life is not fair. In the workplace, where we expect to be treated fairly by management and fellow employees, the reality is often favoritism and partiality. Most countries have laws to protect workers from extreme forms of unfair treatment, such as harassment or discrimination. Fortunately the majority of us have not suffered this way, but what about the less serious types of unfair treatment, the things we experience on a regular basis? The things, while small in the big picture, stir up strong emotions. What should we do then?
Complaining, revenge, whining, and quitting are popular responses. For those who are Christians, God calls us to an unpopular response - patient endurance. In 1 Peter 2:18-19, slaves are instructed to follow the example of Christ and patiently endure unfair treatment, specifically from their employers. You are not a slave (I hope), but the message still applies.
Patient endurance is the ability to let go of the need to immediately right the wrong against us. Patient endurance is not apathetic indifference or weakness, but is the strongest, most effective response you could have. Patient endurance is the ability to show compassion and acceptance toward those treating you unfairly. Patient endurance also gives us time to sort out the truth and examine our own behavior. Perhaps we are the antagonist, or overly sensitive, and merely perceive an injustice. Patient endurance sees the big picture, and trusts our future to a loving God.
We follow the example of Jesus. Jesus Christ is the model of patient endurance. (1 Peter 2:21-25). When treated unfairly, he did not take revenge. He left His case in the hands of God, the Guardian of our souls. Will you leave your case to God? Will you practice patient endurance? It’s not a natural response, and we need God’s help. Pray, “God, help me see the big picture, forgive the injustice, and respond like Jesus would”.
The end result is personal growth and peace of mind. You will grow in humility and love, and so will others. Your manager and co-workers are dealing with their own struggles and setbacks. Your patient endurance will demonstrate to them the genuineness of your faith and the power of God. Your response may be the very thing that leads them to Christ. We will be treated unfairly, you can count on that, but God is pleased when we patiently endure.
-DJS
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